Jesus Wept; The Bible And Human Emotions, Lesson 11


I am writing tonight from the beautiful Tampa Bay area.

I have never used my blog before to promote any books other than the Bible, but after reading through this week’s SS lesson, “Freedom From Addictions” there are a couple of books I would like to recommend. The first one was recommended to me several years ago by a stranger at the Adventist Book Center. I was in Collegedale, Tennessee browsing through the Adventist Book Center when, I picked up the book “You Can Be Free” at random, written by Vaughn Allen. A lady I had never seen before or since walked up to me and told me that was an excellent book and had set her free. Free from what I do not know, but I thought, if you can’t trust a stranger at the ABC then who can you trust? So I bought the book and found it to be very powerful in dealing with all kinds of addictions. It helps you see the source of the addiction, find the remedy in God’s Word, and practical ways to not put yourself in a vulnerable position to temptation. It offers other practical steps to find freedom in Christ. I found it very practical and powerful. You can order it at your local ABC.

A few years ago the Men’s Ministry of the Florida SDA Conference had a workshop on sexual purity in Clearwater. A friend asked me to go so I did. We both thought it would be a simple little seminar on maintaining sexual purity. Wrong! It was an intense workshop for sex addicts. This workshop had group times, and while listening to the men share their testimonies, I learned that many of them began their addiction to sex around the age of 11 or 12. I then noticed on the workshop program that it said you had to be at least 17 to attend, so while this addiction begins at 11 or 12 you can’t get help until you’re 17! This is crazy! We need to help these young men while they are young before things get worse. I am so thankful for my parents for many reasons, and one of those is that in our home there were no taboo topics. There were no awkward conversations. I could talk to my parents about sex as easily and causally as we talked about the Bible or baseball or whatever. I was never censored. When I hear people refer to sex as an awkward or sensitive subject I have a hard time understanding that. The way I was brought up, talking about sex is no more awkward than talking about how to change the oil in your car. I would like to submit to you the idea that, it is Satan’s idea to make sex a taboo topic and not God’s idea. Nobody is going to ask for help if it’s wrong to talk about it.

Many years ago, I lost a friend who had a sexual addiction that nobody even knew about until it was too late and it killed her. It breaks my heart that she may have been scared to reach out for help, for fear that she would be judged.

A great book that has been highly recommended by hundreds of pastors of all faiths, is “Every Man’s Battle” by Stephen Arterburn. You can also find, “Every Young Man’s Battle” for the younger as I was talking about.

While on the subject of overcoming temptations and addictions I want to share a study from the classic book, “The Desire of Ages,” on how God and His Word help us to be victorious.

In closing I want to add something I feel is very important. Several years ago I was reading “The Purpose Drive Life” by Rick Warren. In his book he talks about the importance of having an accountability partner. I used to think that was humanism but now I find it to be very Biblical. After all Adam and Eve were to be accountability partners in the Garden as well as husband and wife. On page 212 of the Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren makes a bold statement that a trusted accountability partner is the only way we can find victory. Again a few years ago I thought that was humanism, but it is very Biblical. “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” James 5:16

6 thoughts on “Jesus Wept; The Bible And Human Emotions, Lesson 11

    1. I’m not sure that I would totally agree that an accountability partner is the only way to gain victory. I believe it can be very helpful, but it’s not impossible to gain the victory with just you and God.

    2. I’m not sure that I would totally agree that an accountability partner is the only way to gain victory. I believe it can be very helpful, but it’s not impossible to gain the victory with just you and God. Thanks for all the time and study you put into our informative bloggs.

      1. Thank you Ruth and I totally agree. God does not need man and does give us victories without accountability partners. I think what Rick Warren was talking about in his book is how we struggle over and over and over and then we need someone to hold us accountable.

  1. In one of his books on the end times, Marvin Moore suggests that we don’t get victory over sin because we’re willing to pray about it in our quiet times, willing to bring it up for prayer in mid-week service, but we don’t seem to want to pray ‘at the moment of temptation’, for we know that if we do, we will get power and ultimately victory, and sometimes we don’t really want that, we want our sin. I’ve experienced this, and probably most of you readers have, as well. “There is no temptation that has taken you except that which is common to man(kind), but God is Faithful, and will make a way of escape (we must call and ask for Help!).” (forgive if I didn’t quote that exactly correct) We won’t come to the place where we ask unless we learn to LOVE HIM MORE/MOST, and then we will begin to hate the sin that separates us from Him. Sanctification is the work of a lifetime, and when we struggle, we are to cooperate with Him in gaining the Victory; but Thank God for His Mercies, Patience, and Love. His Presence with us assures us of His Continued Guidance and Forgiveness (not presumptuously, tho’). He came to save us FROM our sin, not in them. God help us all!

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